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RULES OF ENGAGEMENT Standards for interaction, authorship, and collaboration

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Rules of Engagement

How we engage with ideas, people, and platforms matters.
These standards exist to protect originality, integrity, meaningful collaboration, and to clarify how to engage with

The Lady L Experience. This page is not about restrictions.
It is about respect, discernment, and alignment.

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1. Content & Authorship

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All content published on this website including blog posts, written features, newsletters, email communications, and any related materials is original work created exclusively for The Lady L Experience brand and its audience.

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This content is not intended to be:

  • extracted or repurposed

  • interwoven into other brands, newsletters, devotionals, or platforms

  • shared as teaching material without permission

  • redistributed through backchannel communications or secondary audiences

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Original work carries context, lived experience, and intention. It is not interchangeable, trend-based material, nor is it freely available for adaptation or reuse without prior written consent.

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Respect for authorship is not optional it is foundational.

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2. Collaboration & Invitations

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If something you encounter here resonates with you, sparks curiosity, or aligns with your work, intentional engagement is encouraged.  Rather than borrowing or adapting this material, you are invited to reach out directly to explore appropriate ways to work together.

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This may include:

  • collaborative projects

  • consulting or advisory support

  • speaking engagements or presentations for your audience

  • licensed or approved use of material​

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Collaboration begins with conversation not extraction.
Alignment begins with communication not assumption.

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3. Discernment & Leadership

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Not every message you come across is yours to carry or share.

Just because you see someone speaking on a subject does not mean it is a topic you are meant to broadcast.

Leadership requires discernment knowing when to speak, what to steward, and what to leave untouched.

Chasing trends, algorithms, or relevance at the expense of clarity signals a lack of authorship and direction.

Oversharing information without grounding or responsibility often creates confusion rather than insight especially when done by those who position themselves as leaders.

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Integrity shows up not only in what is shared, but in what is intentionally withheld.

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Closing Statement

 

Copying someone's work without credit isn't admiration, inspiration or learning.  It's a form of erasure. It dismisses the time, thought, lived experience and journey it took for that creative to add their voice into an intended space.  Giving credit isn't just etiquette, it's integrity it says: I see you and I respect the source. I'm not just trying to benefit from your work.

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If you see someone else's work or writings and you like what you see. I encourage you to reach out and tell them.

Try to connect with them in a way that invites collaboration not borrowing, copying or stealing someone else's work.

You never know the origin of people's work or where they write from. Everything you see on social media and the internet is not free for taking. Respect creatives original work, ideas and creativity.

 

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Thank you for honoring  these standards and rules of engagement.

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