It’s Time for a Reset: Protecting Your Process in a Season of Becoming
- atherbeststyle
- Jul 14
- 2 min read
So if you're reading this and you’ve ever felt out of place or unsure for a season trying to figure out where you fit in this big, overwhelming world know this: I see you.
If you’ve ever felt like the target for other people’s projections, or sensed that something in you was craving reconnection, not just with others, but with yourself...I’ve been there. I want to start this reset by telling you something that might change how you see the roadblocks, delays, and disruptions you’ve faced:
Sometimes the roadblock isn’t there to destroy you.
Sometimes it’s there to rebuild you, redirect you, and reveal the new path you’re meant to take.
A Season of Rediscovery
This blog is for those in a season of reinvention those quietly shedding their past selves and making room for something new. You may not have the words for it yet, but you know something in your life needs to shift and maybe you stumbled here because you saw a reflection of your own process in mine.
That’s beautiful however let me gently say this: just because something resonates, doesn’t mean it’s time to teach it......Not yet.
Everyone’s Not a Teacher… And That’s Okay
We live in a world that encourages us to share everything as it’s happening. To teach while we’re still learning. To post before we’ve processed, but your journey is sacred. Some things are meant to marinate, not be broadcasted.
Some lessons are still unfolding still raw, still forming. Trying to explain them too early only invites confusion, overwhelm, and outside opinions that can derail your process.
We move too fast. We share too soon. We act on impulse instead of wisdom, but healing, rediscovery, and reinvention don’t respond to urgency. They respond to care, intention, and time.
Your Process Is Worth Protecting
What’s life-changing for you today might be too much, too soon for the people you’re trying to reach, so protect your process. Honor your becoming.
You don’t have to bring the whole world into your cocoon. You don’t have to explain your transformation while you’re still mid-metamorphosis.
Learn. Heal....when it’s time to speak, you’ll know.
Not out of pressure, but out of power.
💠This is your reminder: Be the student. Grow in silence. Trust the timing of your voice.
Welcome to the journey. You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin again.
